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Spring is blossoming as the world is opening up — and so is re-entry anxiety. Now that all U. Still, there are many unknowns we still have to face, and for singles looking to wade back into the dating pool, these unknowns are far too prevalent. Or maybe it's general blahs, or languishingas the New York Times noted.

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My husband and I have been together for five years and have a great marriage that includes a very satisfying and active sex life. But I have always been a natural flirt. But I also flirt with other men and even women sometimes in front of him, and while he never said much about it in our first couple of years together, he tends to point it out a lot now, and has admitted it bothers him. At the same time, by stifling what comes naturally to me, even when the flirting is innocuous, I feel like I am stifling an essential part of my personality.

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What can I do to reconcile this? Is it breaking up with your husband or something else? You say you are a social butterfly and thus have a lot of friends. That is a good thing. Where does it come from? Do social butterflies always flirt? Would people still like you and want to be around you? That can certainly lead to disaster. It might be worthwhile, in social situations, to train yourself to pause and think before you speak. Considering the implications of your words and behaviors before they become actions is an essential part of effective communication.

If I were your therapist, I would explore this possibility with you to see whether there might be some loneliness —perhaps emotional or existential rather than physical in nature—under the surface of your behavior. You write that your husband has admitted your flirting bothers him. It may also be worthwhile to see a marriage counselor with your husband, as couples counseling can help you both open up safely and understand each other better.

Sometimes, the most important part of communication is simply feeling heard, and therapy creates an impartial space for that to happen.

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He may feel belittled. Perhaps your aim is to tease him? If it is, does he know that? Does it matter? What does his anger mean to you? Does it make you mad at him? Do you listen, acknowledge his feelings, and pledge to honor them? Where do things go off track? Relationship problems tend to worsen if they are not addressed. Where might that lead in your case?

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Do I sound a little extreme? I hope you find a solution, perhaps with the help of counseling, so that you and your husband can enjoy many mutually happy years together.

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Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. Would you say that there is a part of her that is doing this intentionally even though she knows that the behavior is hurtful to him? Why is it that someone might know something about us that does not seem to bother them at all when dating but then when you get married they expect that you should become someone completely different.

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Has anyone ever been a success with that? This is just his personality and I loved it when he used it on me so how could I go back and be resentful of all of that now?? You know that it is wrong that it hurts him and makes him angry so what do flirt in Haven KS get out of that? Eventually he will get tired of being made to feel so small and he will just say forget you and move on.

I can sort of see where he is coming from because just because I like my girl to be one way around me that does not mean that I want her to be like that with anyone else. You know what I mean? I like her to be outgoing and funny with me and yeah probably act like a certain kind of woman but not when we are out in public. I want her to be a lady when we are out and that for me would probably include not flirting with or hitting on other guys. Besides lightly touching people on the shoulder, what else? I think defining terms is very important. Terms and intentions. I get everyones points, but she is not responsible for his feelings.

What if he has been cheated on before and is extra sensitive and insecure? Should she change herself to accommodate his insecurities. You need to feel free to be and they are the ones who have the ball in their court to do something about it if they choose.

If they choose to make that move then I say let them have at it.

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You both have the right to be happy. You have a big decision to make. Do you risk losing him or maybe you should talk to him about your desires about having fun with other man.

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