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View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Please discuss interracial dating in the Birmingham metro area particularly from the perspective of a Black male. Feel free to be brutally honest. I'm expecting the worst but hoping for the best! I dated and married my wife, a white woman here in Birmingham. Otherwise, it is no big deal.
As far as how to meet her, well I don't know. I just got lucky. Grow a thick skin brotha I only date white men and when we are out we get the stares of confusion. When dinning the server assumes that we are coworkers and always bring 2 tickets. And when chilling in an upscale lounge people assume me to be a prostitue, lol. Before I moved I lived in a pretty rough area Norwood, lol and if he picked me up from my apartment the cops always find a reason to stop the car. I guess the only reason a fine young black woman would be in a white man's car in the middle of the hood would be to sell him some drugs or sex.
Basically creating a hostile work environment so she would quit or write her up for every little thing just to fire her. I worked with a white girl for an entire year.
Didn't learn anything about her until she hung up a picture of her black kids at her workstation. After that she was moved to another clinic where only black people worked and she started eating her lunch with us because the white ladies shunned her.
When I lived in the dorm at UAB a young white girl got engaged to a very respectable black guy. He was finishing his master's in nursing. Nobody cared about his achievments. Her soritity sisters and professors stopped speaking to her. She was VERY hurt and angered about how people was treating her. Black women and white men are going to give y'all hell. Things evolve and change and at the end of the day bigots will be bigots. Doesn't really matter. I live in an all white neighborhood like there's 7 black folks out of 22, and 5 of em live in my house 6 if you count the dog!
I doubt as an interracial couple it would be much more difficult.
Interracial dating gets you closer to the white woman you have been looking for!
I'm in a interracial couple with an interracial child and have had no problem. However, neither of us is black, so I can't speak on that part.
I have family that are mixed couples and are in Birmingham and all are Black men with white females It depends on where you are of course. Certain areas could care less.
You still must be careful though and use your head. If you are driving downtown at 2am as a black male with a white female in the car you will get pulled over!!! If you want to date or know where to meet that's an easy one. Downtown Southside is a melting Pot where all of my family met each other oh and in Homewood Originally Posted by Tourian.
Originally Posted by Miv. Jeez, najmah, nobody in Birmingham is gong to lynch you for dating outside your race. I know us ignorant white folks can't help but show our hate, but this over the mountain girl is dating a Hispanic man and I haven't heard anyone say a word about our races or so much as give us an odd look.
Well, this one older white man did stop us in the grocery store to tell us what a cute couple we were, but that was probably just code for "Kill the brown man". You can date who you want. The worst you'll get is a weird look or maybe an insensitive question about your sex life. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Additional giveaways are planned. Detailed information about all U. Posting Quick Reply - Please Wait.
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